INDIVIDUALISM
Most people in
the US believe that the ideal person is independent and self-reliant, and most
people think of themselves this way. People in the US do not think of themselves
as representatives of their families, communities, or social class. Some
international students see this attitude as "selfish". You can see
examples of individualism in the classroom as well. Teachers expect students to
be independent and individualistic, to work alone, and to produce original
work.
The
Declaration of Independence states that "all men are created equal".
In many ways people believe this; you can see equality in such common practices
as "waiting in line". When you go to the bank, to the post office, or
to immigration, you will be asked to take a number and wait. Regardless of how
important or trivial your need is, you will be treated like everyone else;
first come, first served. You can also see equality in the classroom. All students
are the same in the eyes of professors, and many professors view students
(particularly graduate students) as their equals. Professors may ask students
to call them by their first names.
INFORMALITY
Although
equality is ignored in some parts of life, it is followed closely in others.
For example, people treat one another very informally, even in the presence of
great differences in age or social status. This is not a "lack of
respect," this is the custom in the United States.
PUNCTUALITY
Many people in
the US are very punctual and organize their activities around schedules. Being
late is rude. If you cannot be on time, tell the people who are waiting for
you. For business appointments, you should arrive a few minutes early. For
social appointments, you should arrive 10-15 minutes after the appointed time.
It is not a good idea to arrive early for social invitations.
MATERIALISM
Success in the
United States is often measured in dollars. Many people think about money and
material possessions as much as time. As a result, you may think that people
ignore more important things in life, like love and friendship. This is not
true; like people in every country, most people in the US value friendship more
than wealth.
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